1. She calls you her brother. If she has ever called you
her brother, then you’re so deep in the friend zone, it’s
ridiculous. If a girl sees you as her brother, she does
not see you as sexy. If she can call you her brother
and you say nothing, she’ll know you don’t want
anything more either. You’ll be completely written off
into the black hole that is the friend zone.
2. She talks about guys with you, and she is not doing
it to make you jealous. If she is genuinely discussing
boy problems with you, about how she feels and her
dilemmas with other guys you have definitely been
friend zoned. Remember, you wanted a shot at this girl,
not to be her shrink. Either tell her how you feel or
move on, because listening to this kind of chatter is
punishment in some countries.
3. She tells you everything on her mind. This doesn’t
mean the important stuff only. If she tells you every
boring detail about her life, including the clothes she’s
thinking of buying, the food she’s craving, etc then she
does not see you as a romantic partner. Girls wait it out
before spilling everything on their minds to a guy they
like.
4. She starts to date someone else. If you guys are
going strong as friends, talking every day and hanging
out when she starts to date somebody else then you
don’t really have a shot at getting out of the friend
zone. Its even worse if she tells you about her dates
and how she gets butterflies when she sees him.
You’re not even on her romantic radar.
5. There is no intimate tension. When you’re close to
somebody that you like who likes you back, if even only
a little bit, there is always some kind of intimate
tension. In the best cases it feels like a magnet and in
other cases it gets your heart beating faster a little bit
at all the possibilities. If you do not feel any of this
with her and she sees no signs of feeling it, its no
doubt you’re in the friend zone to stay.
6. She doesn’t flirt with you. A lot of the time, you’ll
notice that a lot of girls, even if only your friends will
flirt with you occasionally. It’s not hot and strong, but
it’s there–cute, flirtatious texts, a little touch here and
there, maybe even a kiss on the cheek. If she acts like
you’re a girl when you’re together, give up on all hope
of it going anywhere
7. She never dresses up for you. When you go to hang
out with girls, they’re usually dressed up, with their hair
perfect and their makeup done. If you go to see this
girl, and she’s completely free of makeup, with her hair
in a bun and in her pajamas, she clearly does not care
if you think she’s sexy or not. You may think she is
beautiful regardless, but trust us, she does not want
you to think she is beautiful–you’re one of her best
friends.
8. You chickened out of making a move a long time
ago. If when you first met, you both acted completely
different towards each other; you were flirty, there was
intimate tension and you both even dressed up before
hanging out, then you had a chance buddy. But if you
didn’t make any move she probably wrote you off
forever.
9. She never believes you when you compliment her. A
girls never believes her friends when they compliment
her. She thinks its just them being nice. Girls value
compliments of hot guys, especially the ones they like.
If she brushes off your compliments like “that’s what
you’re supposed to say”, then you’re in the same pool
as her girlfriends.
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