LOVE AND DATING

There has to be a reason why we like thrusting our face into another’s. A new study conducted among 900 men and women has found that kissing plays a crucial role in human courtship because it alerts us to “hidden biological cues indicating the genetic fitness or desirability of a potential mate”. And here are the rules: Check your breath We know, discussing hygiene takes the punch out of passion, but this is elementary. If your mouth smells foul, you’ve lost round one even before you’ve begun. Which is why you have toothbrushes, mouthwash gargles and mint chewing gum. Keep your teeth, gums and breath healthy. While this applies to both sexes, it’s especially vital for men, because research has proved that women depend on taste and smell in mate evaluation. Judge timing Circumstance is a player, and context is key. Pick the right moment. Is your partner keen to kiss you too? Will they allow you into their personal space? It’s best if you run an easy test. Deliver a

In a recent interview with PUNCH, TV presenter  Eku Edewor  declared Nigerian men are actually romantic and for those who are not, she gave some tips:  The Nigerian men I have dated have been very romantic; I guess it depends on the type of man one attracts and also what one deems romantic. Know whom you’re with, some guys don’t want to say cheesy things and look into your eyes but they will always make sure your happiness comes first. Not everything has to be a large “romantic” gesture. Romance has to do with being selfless. Simple things like, choosing to stay with your girlfriend all weekend watching movies instead of being at the clubs all weekend with the boys is romantic; others are sending flowers for no reason at all, surprise dinners, heartfelt messages. If your partner really knows you and loves you, he’ll find ways to be romantic and find ways to make you happy. I actually find Nigerian guys far more active and good when it comes to making large romantic statements. A t

An erection is a funny thing. When it stays hard, you feel great about yourself but when it goes limp, no matter how hard you try, it can be the cause for some serious psychological concern. If you’re not really suffering from anymedical conditions and still have a hard time keeping it hard, there are ways to keep it up and raring to go when you need it most. Just use these 20 tips on how to keep an erection up and it’ll definitely make a difference in your life in a couple of weeks. 1. Talk about your fantasies. Distract yourself from your little head and use your big head in bed. Indulging in dirty talk and fantasies can help reignite the pleasure of s*x for both of you. 2. Get kinky. Speak about your secret fantasies and fetishes with each other and indulge in them. Sometimes, all you need to bring your little guy up is a whole new s*xual experience! 3. Be comfortable in bed. Don’t carry your own weight on your arms for too long when you’re on top of her. F

relationship or whatever you call it when you first start dating is quintessentially the most important time. While you’re excited to have met someone new or actually moving on to a new part of your life, it’s a time where you have to make sure you don’t ruin things by getting too far ahead of yourself.

When’s the last time you moaned, “Oh yeah, that’s it, right there, keep going!” and weren’t talking to your massage therapist? If you can’t remember, then it’s been too long. Unfortunately, bad s*x can sometimes happen to good people. Fortunately, anyone can learn how to make bad s*x better! Here are five simple steps to help you find your way back to, “Oh yeah, that’s it, right there, keep going!” 1. Believe in Yourself Even the most confident women can sometimes forget just how amazing they are. Jodi Lipper, co-author of How to Love Like a Hot Chick, says many women tend to get all LSE (low self- esteem) about their body, and that can hinder their s*x life. “You are hot and you have nothing to apologize for!” she says. “He wants to have s*x with you, which means he is attracted to you, so let it all go and let yourself enjoy the moment.” 2. Express Yourself Your mouth is made for communication, among many other things, so use it! If there’s something off w

I understood that every stage of a relationship comes with uncertainties and the possibility of surviving at such moments would depend on the strength of the both parties. It would be a matter of concern if you or your partner chooses to deal with it alone. Break-up do happen, even to promising relationships, it’s mostly prompted by contrary influence, incompatibility or inability to compromise some standards. Whichever way it comes, there are signs foretelling the possibility of a split in your relationship and from my experience as a relationship counselor, I've gathered 25 signs for both genders that should get your attention. * When his excuse is always the same or contradictory. * When he stops doing what he did to get you. * When you’re often compared to his ex. * When he loves his privacy. * When she starts keeping sensitive secrets. * When she makes important decisions without your consent. * When she gets mad at minor issues. * When you’re alone and

Make her feel like the only one Give her the impression that she's one of a kind and truly remarkable (and she may very well be), and you'll forever be in her good graces. Go ahead and tell her she's flat-out hot; this is one time you can assure you won't end up with your foot in your mouth. To seal the deal, don't get distracted and start checking out the newest arrivals at whatever bar or restaurant you two are in. Making her feel special involves ignoring everyone else in the room. Make her feel happy Get her to open up about things that would make anyone happy like vacations, shopping or her favorite books and authors. The logic is quite simple: By putting her in a blissful state, emotionally and mentally, her reception toward you will be much warmer and friendlier. You immediately get on her good side, which makes the outlook on a budding relationship that much brighter. Relax You don't want to imply that you're only cosying

Everywhere you look -- on every billboard, on every channel -- there are beautiful, scantily clad women. So you could be forgiven for thinking that female beauty is relegated to large boobs and a tiny waist. But the truth about women -- and about the men who love them -- is infinitely more complex. The Putting-On-Tight-Jeans Dance This is a special reward not for the majority of men -- unless, of course, you break out a pair of binoculars and camp out in a tree. (Note: Do not do this.) In the early morning, when you're both preparing for the day ahead, sit back and watch your woman wriggle and dance herself into a pair of too-tight pants. This is what she does every day of her life, something she takes totally for granted, but to you, it'll be like watching the sun rise. Guaranteed to make cold hearts melt. Stretching In Front Of You By now there should be a theme alert: most of what men find so irresistible about women involves the small, involuntary ge

Number 10 She’s Independent No one wants a girlfriend they have to baby-sit. Once in a while, like if she’s had a rough day, it’s great to be her shoulder to cry on, but if she can’t seem to function without you and is constantly after you, she will eventually make you feel like you’re suffocating, which is a surefire way to get you running out the nearest exit. On the other hand, if she has her very own personality and opinions, can stand on her own two feet, both financially and emotionally, and is able to enjoy time away from you — while still missing you, of course — then she must be a great girlfriend. Number 9 She’s Intelligent I hate to be the one to tell you this, but the bimbo routine gets real old, real fast. A woman who can meet you at an intellectual level is a total turn-on. Instead of being the one in total control, you’ll find yourself trying to figure out what she’s really thinking behind those eyes of hers — or if she’s actually thinking at all.

Here are some simple tips i’m going to dish out to you guys, take it from me these methods have worked before, but don’t come running back if a chic slaps you (may be you didn’t follow the instructions well). If you’re a guy wanting a relationship check yourself and see if you have any of these if you don’t time to up your game. 1) Make it big! This means get yourself a career that pays you well. It doesn’t matter whether it’s in the corporate world or in the hustling world of the street, if you have the spending power you’re a hit with the girls. 2) Make a name for yourself The girls wouldn’t turn down a chance to have a BF that’s admired and well known, it makes them feel lucky and every girl likes being lucky. 3) Dress right and tight If you have an athletic physique and a fine face it won’t fly with most Naija girls if you dress like a hard core born again (no offence if you’re one) Your high class, fashionable dressing plus natural looks will sell you any da

No one knows this better than Human Behavior Expert Wendy Walsh, Ph.D. who believes wholeheartedly that what men and women today need most is to just slow things down. Walsh insists her beliefs are based purely on scientific research and economics – all of which she tackles in her upcoming new book,  The 30-Day Love Detox: Cleanse Yourself of Bad Boys, Cheaters, and Commitment Phobes Commitment Phobes, which hits stands this spring. “It’s a much-needed prescription for slow love at a time when everything is fast,” says Walsh“This book is empowering women and telling them about the amazing creatures and goddesses they are and the power they have. It’s not about pointing out all of the mistakes that they make.” In the book, Walsh tackles the top 5 myths women operate on that, she believes, are still keeping them single. Intrigued, right? We were too. Grab your notebooks, as we ask Walsh to break it down for us...... Myth 1: The Hookup Culture Is Everywhere These days, pretty much ever

That's it. You've decided you're leaving today to be with your soulmate. Never again will you settle for the dreary, disconnected existence you've been living, when you can have the breath-stopping, romantic, intoxicating life you've been having in secret during your affair.  Sound familiar? If you're considering ending your current relationship for a new relationship, you may want to slow down and ask yourself these questions first. Do you really know your lover?  No one is perfect, but when we're in the throes of infatuation, we have a difficult time seeing any flaws in our partner. Everything they do seems wonderful, the relationship is perfect and nothing will ever change that. You convince yourself that no one has ever made you feel this way before. If you're still in this infatuation stage , you're not seeing the relationship realistically. Everything changes over time, and routine could settle in quickly. Don't forget that your lov

Vaginal health is an important part of a woman’s overall health. Vaginal problems can affect your fertility, desire for s*x and ability to reach climax. Ongoing vaginal health issues can also affect other areas of your life, causing stress or relationship problems and impacting your self-confidence. What affects vaginal health? The v**ina is a closed muscular canal that extends from the vulva — the outside of the female private part area — to the neck of the uterus (cervix). Various factors can affect your v**ina, some modifiable and some not. They include - 1. Unprotected s*x. You might contract a sexually transmitted infection if you have unprotected s*x. 2. Aggressive s*x or pelvic fracture. Forceful s*x or an injury to the pelvic area can result in vaginal trauma. 3. Certain health conditions. Diabetes and Sjogren’s syndrome — an autoimmune disorder — can cause vaginal dryness. 4. Medications and feminine-hygiene products. Prolonged use of antibiotics increases the ri

Numerous factors have been shown to be associated with increased risk of various health problems. Today we present general information about some of the factors that put women at higher risk of cancer. As for lesbian health research in general, information is limited on the prevalence of particular health risk factors among lesbians. The Women’s Health Initiative (WHI) provides one useful source of data for looking at differences between lesbian and heterosexual women in the study in terms of certain health-related risk variables. 1. Religious Implication or Wrath of God Lev. 18:22, “You shall not lie with a male as one lies with a female; it is an abomination.”1 Lev. 20:13, “If there is a man who lies with a male as those who lie with a woman, both of them have committed a detestable act; they shall surely be put to death. Their bloodguiltness is upon them” Unlike other sins, homosexuality has a heavy judgment administered by God Himself upon those who commit it – and

With these tips, you would learn how to show a man you love him in ways he will truly appreciate. 1. Your Undivided Attention When the male brain sees you checking your iPhone during dinner, it interprets that as ‘I’m not important.” 2. His Favorite Meal That old adage is true: “The best way to a man’s heart may be through his belly.” Knowing what he likes to eat without having to ask him demonstrates how well you know him. 2. His Favorite Meal That old adage is true: “The best way to a man’s heart may be through his belly.” Knowing what he likes to eat without having to ask him demonstrates how well you know him. 3. Wearing that Dress He Loves You in Dolling up sends the message that you still want to look good for him, no matter how long you’ve been together. Men’s brains are wired to respond to visual cues more than women’s brains. 4. Taking Care of Yourself Shedding stress, eating right, exercising, quitting smoking and even pampering yourself may sound like t