Make her feel like the only one
Give her the impression that she's one of a kind
and truly remarkable (and she may very well be),
and you'll forever be in her good graces. Go
ahead and tell her she's flat-out hot; this is one
time you can assure you won't end up with your
foot in your mouth.
To seal the deal, don't get distracted and start
checking out the newest arrivals at whatever bar
or restaurant you two are in. Making her feel
special involves ignoring everyone else in the
room.
Make her feel happy
Get her to open up about things that would
make anyone happy like vacations, shopping or
her favorite books and authors. The logic is
quite simple: By putting her in a blissful state,
emotionally and mentally, her reception toward
you will be much warmer and friendlier. You
immediately get on her good side, which makes
the outlook on a budding relationship that much
brighter.
Relax
You don't want to imply that you're only cosying
up to her for one reason. Sit back, relax and
take the time to get to know her as a person,
not just as another entry in your little black
book.
If any sex talk does come up, however, make
sure she's the one who initiated it.
Be articulate
In other words, flatter her with your vast
knowledge of the English language. Show her
that you're familiar with such literary greats as
Shakespeare and Chekhov, and not just Marvel
comics. Articulating yourself allows her to see
you in a more profound light. If your vocabulary
is truly limited, just look up a few interesting
words and use them accordingly. The trick is to
use words that are clever enough to impress but
not so intricate that she'll know you're trying too
hard. And, above all, avoid words that you don't
know the meanings of, in case she asks (or
worse, you use them in the wrong context).
Give her space
If she seems reluctant to hand out her home
number, don't try to force it out of her (even if
things went smoothly up to that point). She may
want to take things especially slow, or may not
even be interested. Mention that you wouldn't
mind calling her once in a while and let her take
it from there. Part of the flirting process
involves giving women some breathing room, so
don't cling to her the whole night either.
Remember every detail
Take a mental note of everything she's wearing,
from her earrings to her shoes , and everything
in between. This will prove to be especially
rewarding in the future. She'll be so touched
that you actually remembered every little detail,
she's bound to feel exceptional.
Offer an original compliment
The trick here is to not to make any obvious
observations (the old, "that sweater looks great
on you" line is getting predictable). If she's really
attractive, chances are she's heard all the old
clichés . So instead, catch her off guard and say
something nice about her shoulders (yes, her
shoulders). You can also try to speak her
language and talk about her whole outfit without
sounding too effeminate, or try guessing what
perfume she's wearing. But be sure you know
your perfumes, or this tactic may backfire.
Give her provocative glances
Otherwise known as an "eye smile," a
provocative glance is more than just a regular
smile in that you also communicate your
feelings nonverbally. It can take the place of a
thousand pickup lines and is likely a safer bet.
Be warned though, you might want to practice
this -- an overly-intense look can be worse than
a bad opening line.
Give her the impression that she's one of a kind
and truly remarkable (and she may very well be),
and you'll forever be in her good graces. Go
ahead and tell her she's flat-out hot; this is one
time you can assure you won't end up with your
foot in your mouth.
To seal the deal, don't get distracted and start
checking out the newest arrivals at whatever bar
or restaurant you two are in. Making her feel
special involves ignoring everyone else in the
room.
Make her feel happy
Get her to open up about things that would
make anyone happy like vacations, shopping or
her favorite books and authors. The logic is
quite simple: By putting her in a blissful state,
emotionally and mentally, her reception toward
you will be much warmer and friendlier. You
immediately get on her good side, which makes
the outlook on a budding relationship that much
brighter.
Relax
You don't want to imply that you're only cosying
up to her for one reason. Sit back, relax and
take the time to get to know her as a person,
not just as another entry in your little black
book.
If any sex talk does come up, however, make
sure she's the one who initiated it.
Be articulate
In other words, flatter her with your vast
knowledge of the English language. Show her
that you're familiar with such literary greats as
Shakespeare and Chekhov, and not just Marvel
comics. Articulating yourself allows her to see
you in a more profound light. If your vocabulary
is truly limited, just look up a few interesting
words and use them accordingly. The trick is to
use words that are clever enough to impress but
not so intricate that she'll know you're trying too
hard. And, above all, avoid words that you don't
know the meanings of, in case she asks (or
worse, you use them in the wrong context).
Give her space
If she seems reluctant to hand out her home
number, don't try to force it out of her (even if
things went smoothly up to that point). She may
want to take things especially slow, or may not
even be interested. Mention that you wouldn't
mind calling her once in a while and let her take
it from there. Part of the flirting process
involves giving women some breathing room, so
don't cling to her the whole night either.
Remember every detail
Take a mental note of everything she's wearing,
from her earrings to her shoes , and everything
in between. This will prove to be especially
rewarding in the future. She'll be so touched
that you actually remembered every little detail,
she's bound to feel exceptional.
Offer an original compliment
The trick here is to not to make any obvious
observations (the old, "that sweater looks great
on you" line is getting predictable). If she's really
attractive, chances are she's heard all the old
clichés . So instead, catch her off guard and say
something nice about her shoulders (yes, her
shoulders). You can also try to speak her
language and talk about her whole outfit without
sounding too effeminate, or try guessing what
perfume she's wearing. But be sure you know
your perfumes, or this tactic may backfire.
Give her provocative glances
Otherwise known as an "eye smile," a
provocative glance is more than just a regular
smile in that you also communicate your
feelings nonverbally. It can take the place of a
thousand pickup lines and is likely a safer bet.
Be warned though, you might want to practice
this -- an overly-intense look can be worse than
a bad opening line.
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