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MISTAKES WOMEN MAKE DURING SEX





1) Don't Fake It its no secret we love women who have orgasms but faking it to please us only robs you of the pleasure you deserve and we want you to have. Besides, if we think we are doing it right, it only makes us repeat the same style that achieved the fictitious result, and only takes you further away from actually having orgasms with us. What a shame. If it is our first time together, let us get off to an honest beginning. If you do not have an orgasm, and he asks if you did, be honest and tell him the truth. The more you like the man, the more honest you need to be with him.

2) Show & Tell Men are not mind readers. If you are not having orgasms with us, show and tell us what we need to do, and do not be afraid of appearing too liberated. Men love a challenge, especially this one, and real men admire women who can talk us through it. Give honest feedback and lead us to the finish line. It is difficult to please a woman who cannot please herself. If you do not know what to tell us, you do not masturbate, please start, and do use a normal size prop without electricity (ours does not have batteries). When you find the spot, action, intensity, or combination that works, tell us what it is, and well work on that together until we make fireworks. That is recreation at its finest.

3) Connect if we are connected emotionally, the experience can last as long as we want it to last, and it can be the everything we both want it to be. Due to abandonment and other issues, some women go out of their way to disconnect. This behavior may protect your heart but will do nothing for our sëxual experiences. Intimacy is not sëx and sëx is not intimacy, but intimate sëx can be wonderful. If you have abandonment issues, try this: Say to yourself I may not love you tomorrow but right now, I love you more than I love anyone I have ever known. Now connect and give yourself to him. You just might have the orgasm of your life and he may too.

4) Don't Kick the Dog Rejection in lovemaking is the worst of all things. Men are a lot like puppies. Imagine coming home after a long day and your puppy bounces to the door with the most affectionate greeting, but rather than kneeling to shower him with love and affection, you kick the poor doggy. How often do you think that needs to happen before the little guy slows his approach and finally stops greeting you altogether? The same goes for men. Unless you want him to lose interest, and that can happen quite easily, find the energy to get yourself into it, each time and forever.

5) Your Sëx Drive The only difference between a great friendship and romance is sëx. In matchmaking, I try to match sëx drives right along with all of the other stuff. When I interview men and women, I ask them to tell me a number from one to ten, lowest to highest, of how often they like to have sëx per week. While a four and a six will usually work things out, a four and a seven likely will not, and neither will a two and a five, let alone a two and a seven. Save yourself six months in a relationship going nowhere. At the earliest point possible, mention your sëx drive in a conversation so you two are on the same page. Note: Contrary to popular belief, most women have very healthy sëx drives very.

6) Think beyond the Bed That mattress is for sleeping, and occasionally for sëx, but if your sëx life is boring, you are probably horizontal way too much. Find different places in the apartment, and find different places other than the apartment. Elevators, staircases, bathrooms and boardrooms are only the beginning. Always be on the lookout for a great place to take your lover, and if you are creative, surprise him by leading him to the spot you discovered. Guess what sweetheart? I found a new spot. Now get over here.

7) Take the Lead We love it when you initiate sëx. We feel desired when you initiate sëx. We get totally turned on when you initiate sëx. Initiate sëx.

8) Go for an Oscar Not all women enjoy giving oral sëx and we get that. The ones who do make us feel like they would do it for as long as we wanted. They do not rush it. They are happy to wait for us to signal to them that were ready for something else. At least that is how they make us feel. The result is that we feel better connected to you, which will make the main event last longer and nice for you as well. If you are one of the women who does not enjoy giving oral sëx, it would be in your best interest to pretend you are going for an Academy Award for Best Actress in an Action Thriller.

9) Let's talk or Not People are split on the subject of talking during sëx. Many can go either way. Try to find out early what your partner likes and does not like when it comes to talking. Sëx is about pleasing your partner, and if everybody felt that way, we would all be a lot happier. Of course, life would be a lot easier too if you would simply tell us what you would like to hear or not hear.

10) Get In Sync If you have just started fooling around, and he caresses your hair or something innocuous like that; do not moan as if a Minotaur is ravaging you. Melodrama during sëx is highly annoying. On the other hand, if you are in sync, anything goes including all the sound effects of a jungle. In addition, if one of you does something silly, go ahead and laugh so you both will. After all, were doing it for the fun, right?

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