LOVE AND DATING

Make her feel like the only one Give her the impression that she's one of a kind and truly remarkable (and she may very well be), and you'll forever be in her good graces. Go ahead and tell her she's flat-out hot; this is one time you can assure you won't end up with your foot in your mouth. To seal the deal, don't get distracted and start checking out the newest arrivals at whatever bar or restaurant you two are in. Making her feel special involves ignoring everyone else in the room. Make her feel happy Get her to open up about things that would make anyone happy like vacations, shopping or her favorite books and authors. The logic is quite simple: By putting her in a blissful state, emotionally and mentally, her reception toward you will be much warmer and friendlier. You immediately get on her good side, which makes the outlook on a budding relationship that much brighter. Relax You don't want to imply that you're only cosying

Everywhere you look -- on every billboard, on every channel -- there are beautiful, scantily clad women. So you could be forgiven for thinking that female beauty is relegated to large boobs and a tiny waist. But the truth about women -- and about the men who love them -- is infinitely more complex. The Putting-On-Tight-Jeans Dance This is a special reward not for the majority of men -- unless, of course, you break out a pair of binoculars and camp out in a tree. (Note: Do not do this.) In the early morning, when you're both preparing for the day ahead, sit back and watch your woman wriggle and dance herself into a pair of too-tight pants. This is what she does every day of her life, something she takes totally for granted, but to you, it'll be like watching the sun rise. Guaranteed to make cold hearts melt. Stretching In Front Of You By now there should be a theme alert: most of what men find so irresistible about women involves the small, involuntary ge

Number 10 She’s Independent No one wants a girlfriend they have to baby-sit. Once in a while, like if she’s had a rough day, it’s great to be her shoulder to cry on, but if she can’t seem to function without you and is constantly after you, she will eventually make you feel like you’re suffocating, which is a surefire way to get you running out the nearest exit. On the other hand, if she has her very own personality and opinions, can stand on her own two feet, both financially and emotionally, and is able to enjoy time away from you — while still missing you, of course — then she must be a great girlfriend. Number 9 She’s Intelligent I hate to be the one to tell you this, but the bimbo routine gets real old, real fast. A woman who can meet you at an intellectual level is a total turn-on. Instead of being the one in total control, you’ll find yourself trying to figure out what she’s really thinking behind those eyes of hers — or if she’s actually thinking at all.