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An Open Letter to Anyone Looking for True Love

Dear True Love Seeker, We must begin with your personal definition of TRUE LOVE. Without that, your search is pointless as the roundabout with no feasible exit for your journey. Don’t race to the dictionary, as the definition lies within your own life philosophy and experience.

Reasons why loving someone too much kills the love

Contrary to love stories, chick flicks and epic poems,
there is such a thing as loving someone too much. If
you do not know when to stop smothering someone,
you run the risk of pushing your newfound love away.
Many people are addicted to loving too much and
smothering a partner without even realizing it. And
while they do this, they ignore all the warning signs,
and are completely taken off guard when their partner
leaves them.
You need to remember that as exciting as being in a
new relationship is, you have to watch your step.
Although there is nothing wrong with showering your
partner with love, there is a fine line between being
attentive and smothering.
Do not be blinded by love and learn to pay attention to
the signals. When you constantly cross the line of your
partner’s tolerance and annoyance, your partner will
probably display telltale signs that enough is enough,
and that they need you to back away.
Some of these signs include, but are not limited to,
pulling disappearing ac…

6 Ways to get a woman to put you first

Women have options. If you have just started dating a
woman, chances are you are wrong if you think her
sole focus is you. She could be dating another man
concurrently, or she could be talking to other men on
dating apps.
This may seem discouraging, but the good news is it’s
easier than you think to obtain her undivided attention.
Here are six ways to keep her interested and have her
choosing you over her other options:
Perhaps the first date went exceptionally well, and
both of you were feeling a lot of chemistry. If that is
the case, it’s important to keep the momentum going
by locking in a second date in close succession to the
If you wait too long to ask a woman out on a second
date, the momentum can be lost and it can almost feel
like you are having to start all over again.
If you are lucky, the chemistry can be regained, and if
you are exceptionally lucky, you can pick back up right
where you left off. However, you are making it much
more diffic…

Mistakes men make in bed

You've got her as far as your bedroom. What
could possibly go wrong now? Many things - just continue reading
these and find out why she never phoned or returned
your calls.
Not shaving. Like love, stubble hurts. When you drag
your chin across her face or thighs, she might not be
moaning from pleasure, but from pain.
Blowing in her ear. There’s a big difference between
erotic whispering in someone’s ear and huffing and
puffing as if you want to blow the house down.
Twiddling her nipples. Nipples are sensitive and should
be treated gently. They should not be treated like radio
Ignoring the rest of her body. A woman is made up of
more than two breasts and a vagina. Pay attention to
the rest of her.
Not disposing of used condoms. This is the
responsibility of the person who wore it.
Not kissing first. Foreplay starts with passionate
kissing. Don’t skip this part – she will feel neglected by
your apparent haste.
Attacking the clitoris. Be gentle and don’t use direct
pressure. This coul…

7 Types Of Guys Women Can't Resist

Below are seven of these "ideal types" of men that
women are
drawn to, and an explanation as to why these men are
appealing. But don't freak out or permanently alter
personality if you don't fit into any of these categories
— women will see right through that.
Ideally, you should exude some traits from each of
different categories; in fact, you probably already do.
With a
quick perusal of the list below, you should be in much
shape to understand what women are looking for, and
importantly, to make sure that you fit the bill.
1. The Romantic Guy
He believes in classic romance. He is constantly
bringing her
flowers and chocolate and lighting candles during
dinner. He
calls her often to let her know he is thinking about her
looks into her eyes and tells her how he feels.
Why he is so irresistible: A woman loves to feel
and the romantic guy makes this happen. He uses
gestures to show her he is thinking about her…

Signs That You Are In The Friend Zone And You Dont Even Know It!

1. She calls you her brother. If she has ever called you
her brother, then you’re so deep in the friend zone, it’s
ridiculous. If a girl sees you as her brother, she does
not see you as sexy. If she can call you her brother
and you say nothing, she’ll know you don’t want
anything more either. You’ll be completely written off
into the black hole that is the friend zone.
2. She talks about guys with you, and she is not doing
it to make you jealous. If she is genuinely discussing
boy problems with you, about how she feels and her
dilemmas with other guys you have definitely been
friend zoned. Remember, you wanted a shot at this girl,
not to be her shrink. Either tell her how you feel or
move on, because listening to this kind of chatter is
punishment in some countries.
3. She tells you everything on her mind. This doesn’t
mean the important stuff only. If she tells you every
boring detail about her life, including the clothes she’s
thinking of buying, the food she’s craving, etc then she