LOVE AND DATING

Dear True Love Seeker, We must begin with your personal definition of TRUE LOVE. Without that, your search is pointless as the roundabout with no feasible exit for your journey. Don’t race to the dictionary, as the definition lies within your own life philosophy and experience.

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Contrary to love stories, chick flicks and epic poems, there is such a thing as loving someone too much. If you do not know when to stop smothering someone, you run the risk of pushing your newfound love away. Many people are addicted to loving too much and smothering a partner without even realizing it. And while they do this, they ignore all the warning signs, and are completely taken off guard when their partner leaves them. You need to remember that as exciting as being in a new relationship is, you have to watch your step. Although there is nothing wrong with showering your partner with love, there is a fine line between being attentive and smothering. Do not be blinded by love and learn to pay attention to the signals. When you constantly cross the line of your partner’s tolerance and annoyance, your partner will probably display telltale signs that enough is enough, and that they need you to back away. Some of these signs include, but are not limited to, pull

Women have options. If you have just started dating a woman, chances are you are wrong if you think her sole focus is you. She could be dating another man concurrently, or she could be talking to other men on dating apps. This may seem discouraging, but the good news is it’s easier than you think to obtain her undivided attention. Here are six ways to keep her interested and have her choosing you over her other options: 1. KEEP THE MOMENTUM GOING Perhaps the first date went exceptionally well, and both of you were feeling a lot of chemistry. If that is the case, it’s important to keep the momentum going by locking in a second date in close succession to the first. If you wait too long to ask a woman out on a second date, the momentum can be lost and it can almost feel like you are having to start all over again. If you are lucky, the chemistry can be regained, and if you are exceptionally lucky, you can pick back up right where you left off. However, you are making

You've got her as far as your bedroom. What could possibly go wrong now? Many things - just continue reading these and find out why she never phoned or returned your calls. Not shaving . Like love, stubble hurts. When you drag your chin across her face or thighs, she might not be moaning from pleasure, but from pain. Blowing in her ear . There’s a big difference between erotic whispering in someone’s ear and huffing and puffing as if you want to blow the house down. Twiddling her nipples . Nipples are sensitive and should be treated gently. They should not be treated like radio dials. Ignoring the rest of her body . A woman is made up of more than two breasts and a vagina. Pay attention to the rest of her. Not disposing of used condoms . This is the responsibility of the person who wore it. Not kissing first . Foreplay starts with passionate kissing. Don’t skip this part – she will feel neglected by your apparent haste. Attacking the clitoris . Be gentle and do

Below are seven of these "ideal types" of men that women are drawn to, and an explanation as to why these men are so appealing. But don't freak out or permanently alter your personality if you don't fit into any of these categories exactly — women will see right through that. Ideally, you should exude some traits from each of these different categories; in fact, you probably already do. With a quick perusal of the list below, you should be in much better shape to understand what women are looking for, and most importantly, to make sure that you fit the bill. 1. The Romantic Guy He believes in classic romance. He is constantly bringing her flowers and chocolate and lighting candles during dinner. He calls her often to let her know he is thinking about her and looks into her eyes and tells her how he feels. Why he is so irresistible: A woman loves to feel appreciated, and the romantic guy makes this happen. He uses romantic gestures to show

1. She calls you her brother. If she has ever called you her brother, then you’re so deep in the friend zone, it’s ridiculous. If a girl sees you as her brother, she does not see you as sexy. If she can call you her brother and you say nothing, she’ll know you don’t want anything more either. You’ll be completely written off into the black hole that is the friend zone. 2. She talks about guys with you, and she is not doing it to make you jealous. If she is genuinely discussing boy problems with you, about how she feels and her dilemmas with other guys you have definitely been friend zoned. Remember, you wanted a shot at this girl, not to be her shrink. Either tell her how you feel or move on, because listening to this kind of chatter is punishment in some countries. 3. She tells you everything on her mind. This doesn’t mean the important stuff only. If she tells you every boring detail about her life, including the clothes she’s thinking of buying, the food she’s crav