Just like men have stored pornographic images we cannot wait to reenact, ladies have fantasies best expressed by the sales of Fifty Shades of Grey playing in their heads. In fact, the irony is that some women even find themselves toning down their sexuality because they are scared the man would think badly of them should their inner freak be unleashed. The man ends up keeping a mistress who he enjoys for her freakish ways and the cycle of domestic squabbling begins or rather, continues.
Just like any trait we feel we will be judged negatively for expressing, sexual desires for women require a certain level of safety and comfort to unleash. Here are some quick tips to bring out the beast in her.
1. Talk about it
The saying that there is power in the tongue applies to more than curses, and certainly more than oral. Talking about sexuality in a playful manner to let her know that you are open to whatever madness she has in mind can go a long way in freeing her of the burden of asking. You can even take advantage of this and suggest what you might like e.g Honey, you know what would be great is if one day I come back from work and we can just do it bent over the front door. I wouldn’t suggest this if you live with kids.
2. Initiate it
A friend of mine was telling me about how he was getting hot with this girl and had to put her through the “freak-test”. I was as stunned as you probably are at this point. I wasn’t even aware there was a test for freakishness. So like any man of inquiry, I asked him what this test entailed. Apparently, running ones finger over the back orifice (bum hole) is a good indicator to how far she is willing to go. If her breathing increases, the sky is your limit, if she moves away…try something else. The point is that you have to be pro-active, lick her ears, bite her neck, rub your face all over her ___, you can fill in the gap. Just do something more than the usual in and out plus kisses on the side.
3. Gamify it
Strip chess, truth or dare, show me-I show you, whatever you have to do. Games allow us to do things we normally wouldn’t do because we can hide under the cloak of “participation” instead of taking responsibility of our sexual natures. A simple game I would recommend is the “naughty draw”. Very simple, get seven pieces of paper, write down seven naughty things you want to try out, fold up the papers, and then take turns in picking one every week.
4. Flirt with her
It is rather perplexing that most men think of flirting as a thing you only do while you are trying to get with a girl. Your girl/wife will never get tired of you flirting with her, and the naughtier you can go, the better. Just try sending you girl a dick-pic while she is at work with a caption of how you can’t wait till she is home to give her the bang of her life and see if she doesn’t come home pre-heated for a sex tournament.
5. DON’T Judge
Trust is founded on the promise of no judgement. So if somewhere along the line she overstepped a boundary and blurts out ‘can I stick something down your ass?’ Try to find the most diplomatic way to escape the potential violation without making her feel terrible about it…or perhaps that is what you are into or you are itching for exploring new horizons. To that I will say Godspeed son, the sky is your beginning.
- PULSE NG
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