You wonder?
Isn’t it always the other way around? Men
are traditionally always called the
unfaithful ones and the ones most likely
to cheat. But there isn’t any rule in the
book that says women won’t do it too.
They are probably just more subtle or
selective about it. Unlike men, with
women it isn’t so much an ego boost or a
way of reassuring themselves of their
sexual prowess. With women the
motivations are often far more complex,
but of course, no less inexcusable.
Why Do Women Cheat? And Are There
Some Women More Prone To Cheating
Than Others?
1. The Thrill-Seeker
There are some women who cheat just for
the adventure and the sheer high they get
from it. This kind of woman usually
craves the variety and excitement of one-
night stands or short-term affairs. She
gets easily bored with the routine and the
predictable and loves to live life a little
dangerously. That includes seeking a little
loving on the side.
2. The Beauty Queen
This kind of woman may not actively seek
to stray. The opportunities just keep
presenting themselves. She is extremely
attractive and sensuous, and somehow
men get drawn to her despite themselves
and against their better judgment. And of
course, it doesn’t seem to matter to either
party that one or the other is in a
committed relationship.
3. The Insatiable
There are some women who just aren’t
content with the physical side of their
relationships. They are never satisfied
with their sex lives, or in some cases their
partners fail to show enough interest in
them. Either way they are left wanting.
And this drives them to other men’s arms,
in an effort to seek pleasure and satisfy
their innermost desires.
4. The Cheating Addict
And then there’s the woman for whom
cheating is an addiction as sure as others
are addicted to alcohol. By cheating, she
reassures herself that she is still attractive
and men find her desirable. Or she has
had an insecure or unpleasant childhood;
or an early adulthood which has left its
mark on her. As a result of which she
finds it hard to commit to a relationship
and trust her instincts. By cheating, she
knows where she's at and is in control of
the situation, while keeping her emotions
intact.
5. The Unfulfilled Woman
This woman is deeply dissatisfied with her
current relationship. She is either deprived
of attention from her current partner, or is
being neglected and needs to be
reassured of her feminine attributes. Or
she's just plain lonely and needs to be
held, which often leading to intimacy and
an affair .
6. The Tit-For-Tat Woman
And then there’s the woman who knows
she’s being cheated upon and in her hurt
and anger she feels it's payback time.
And so decides to hit back in the same
measure. Having done that, she realizes
it’s not so bad after all and figures two
can play the same game. If you are in a
relationship with this kind of a woman,
and have just discovered she’s cheating
on you, you have to figure out your stake
in the relationship. And what, if any, is
your contribution to her straying.
If you realize that you have let her down
with your neglect, or possibly lack of
attention, sexually or otherwise, you are
right in feeling that cheating does not
justify it. You will have to decide, whether
or not there are reasons behind her
cheating on you, if you would like to work
through it. Or if it is a chronic problem
and you can never trust her again,
whether you want out.
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