>>>>SURE SIGN OF CONFIDENCE #2: Being
"Put Together" : It's true, a woman will never
decide that a man might be "Mr.
Right" just because he looks like
Brad Pitt... But rest assured she'll INSTANTLY
RULE HIM OUT if he doesn't look
"right". That means caring about himself
enough to attend to the basics
of appearance... which, in turn,
communicates a positive, healthy
self-image. Again, this doesn't mean that a
man has to buy trendy clothes...
wear a "scent"... or look like an
obsessive gym rat. It DOES mean that he needs to
master the basics of good
grooming and hygiene. Because, if a man doesn't have it
together enough to attend to
his own needs, a hot woman
knows right away that there's
NO WAY he can possibly attend
to hers. By the way... This also means being savvy
enough to avoid "extremes" in
appearance. When first meeting a woman, I
recommend dressing neutrally
and neatly, neither coming
across as a stuffy "suit" or a
sandal hound. Finally: coming across as "put
together" means communicating
confidence about who you are
on the INSIDE as well. You can do it by being able to
carry on an interesting
conversation about music... food...
culture... whatever. Becoming a good
conversationalist is a sure sign
that you have it all together...
that you're in a healthy, curious,
CONFIDENT state of mind. Meanwhile, I don't want to get
too far off track, so on with the
4 sure signs of confidence that
every woman you meet is
instantly looking for in YOU
(whether you realize it or not.) >>>>SURE SIGN OF CONFIDENCE #3: Being
"Humble" : This is a big one... Like I always say, any "jerk" can
act cocky with a woman... ... but coming across as truly
CONFIDENT requires something
else: The ability to control what you
say and do so that you never
come across as "above" anyone
else. Sure, a man can act cocky... as
long as he makes sure that it's
FUNNY (since arrogance without
humor equals "jerk" every time). A truly confident man makes fun
of HIMSELF above all others, and
never "nit picks" or tries to hurt
another person's feelings. For example: It's okay to look across the room
at some other guy and say
something cocky like, "Look at
that guy's facial hair... I think
1975 wants it back." But ONLY if he's HUMBLE enough
to add a comment like, "Believe
me, I know... mine was just like
it". The power of being "Cocky" with
a woman in exactly the right
way... by mixing in the right
amount of "Funny" and humility...
is one of the corner stones of
everything i tell people.>>>> SURE SIGN OF CONFIDENCE #4 A
Sense of Humor : a great sense of humor is the
most instant, obvious, magnetic
force that makes a woman sense
a man's CONFIDENCE... And therefore feel the first
sparks of ATTRACTION for him. That's why I suggest that guys
do whatever they can to
cultivate a "comic sensibility,"
even if it means just reading a
few books about the theory and
structure of comedy and timing. I also recommend checking out
cutting-edge humor sites
or just watching comedy shows to understand what's hip
and funny TODAY... ... because it's all guaranteed to
change and become "lame"
TOMORROW! Okay, so add up these 4 sure
signs of confidence, and the
message is clear: While most men waste time
trying to impress women by
acting "tough" or "dominant,"... ... the signs of confidence great
women REALLY look for are much
more subtle... ... and MUCH more easily achieved! You can learn how to start
making them a part of who YOU
are and how you ACT around
women.
"Put Together" : It's true, a woman will never
decide that a man might be "Mr.
Right" just because he looks like
Brad Pitt... But rest assured she'll INSTANTLY
RULE HIM OUT if he doesn't look
"right". That means caring about himself
enough to attend to the basics
of appearance... which, in turn,
communicates a positive, healthy
self-image. Again, this doesn't mean that a
man has to buy trendy clothes...
wear a "scent"... or look like an
obsessive gym rat. It DOES mean that he needs to
master the basics of good
grooming and hygiene. Because, if a man doesn't have it
together enough to attend to
his own needs, a hot woman
knows right away that there's
NO WAY he can possibly attend
to hers. By the way... This also means being savvy
enough to avoid "extremes" in
appearance. When first meeting a woman, I
recommend dressing neutrally
and neatly, neither coming
across as a stuffy "suit" or a
sandal hound. Finally: coming across as "put
together" means communicating
confidence about who you are
on the INSIDE as well. You can do it by being able to
carry on an interesting
conversation about music... food...
culture... whatever. Becoming a good
conversationalist is a sure sign
that you have it all together...
that you're in a healthy, curious,
CONFIDENT state of mind. Meanwhile, I don't want to get
too far off track, so on with the
4 sure signs of confidence that
every woman you meet is
instantly looking for in YOU
(whether you realize it or not.) >>>>SURE SIGN OF CONFIDENCE #3: Being
"Humble" : This is a big one... Like I always say, any "jerk" can
act cocky with a woman... ... but coming across as truly
CONFIDENT requires something
else: The ability to control what you
say and do so that you never
come across as "above" anyone
else. Sure, a man can act cocky... as
long as he makes sure that it's
FUNNY (since arrogance without
humor equals "jerk" every time). A truly confident man makes fun
of HIMSELF above all others, and
never "nit picks" or tries to hurt
another person's feelings. For example: It's okay to look across the room
at some other guy and say
something cocky like, "Look at
that guy's facial hair... I think
1975 wants it back." But ONLY if he's HUMBLE enough
to add a comment like, "Believe
me, I know... mine was just like
it". The power of being "Cocky" with
a woman in exactly the right
way... by mixing in the right
amount of "Funny" and humility...
is one of the corner stones of
everything i tell people.>>>> SURE SIGN OF CONFIDENCE #4 A
Sense of Humor : a great sense of humor is the
most instant, obvious, magnetic
force that makes a woman sense
a man's CONFIDENCE... And therefore feel the first
sparks of ATTRACTION for him. That's why I suggest that guys
do whatever they can to
cultivate a "comic sensibility,"
even if it means just reading a
few books about the theory and
structure of comedy and timing. I also recommend checking out
cutting-edge humor sites
or just watching comedy shows to understand what's hip
and funny TODAY... ... because it's all guaranteed to
change and become "lame"
TOMORROW! Okay, so add up these 4 sure
signs of confidence, and the
message is clear: While most men waste time
trying to impress women by
acting "tough" or "dominant,"... ... the signs of confidence great
women REALLY look for are much
more subtle... ... and MUCH more easily achieved! You can learn how to start
making them a part of who YOU
are and how you ACT around
women.
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