LOVE AND DATING

Bad Boys are all around us and guess what, they are almost irresistible, that is why characters like Charlie Boy and Terry G is fascinating to a lot of people. The is the same reason why most people will support Olamide instead of Don Jazzy any time, any day. They smoke, they have tattoos, they are alcoholics. There are so many negatives attached to Bad boys, yet there are women who want and seriously desire a bad boy in their life. The question is are they just trying to attain the unattainable of they just like the challenge of making him fall in love. Here are Three reasons why women fall for bad boys GREAT SÉX In a recent study conducted by the University of Michigan’s School of Public Health in 2007, women were asked to judge potential mates by how masculine their features were. It was discovered that men with masculine traits are seen as good short-term partners, while those with more feminine traits such as a rounder face and fuller lips are perceived as better ...

Do you often feel inadequate and “not good enough” to be friends, lovers, or business partners with certain people? You simply can't understand what others see in you. You are very insecure. You end many promising relationships because of insecurity. In your mind, it feels easier for you to end it before they did. Walking away rather than risking the heartbreak of rejection is how you justify this behavior to yourself. I have also been through this in the past. But after awhile, as I grew emotionally, I began to realize that I wanted and needed the comfort and support of long-term relationships (I am not referring to only romantic relationships) So what did I do, and what can you do if insecurity is damaging your relationships? You need to understand that a good relationship is about sharing ideas and enjoyable moments with another, to help each other grow in healthy ways, both together socially and as individuals. If someone really does treat you poorly or lies and cheats you...

There is always this misconception among our young Nigerian ladies of today that playing ‘ hard to get ‘ is the sure way of identifying a guy who truly desires and cherishes them. This notion is not only fallacious, it also stands on a sinking foundation! There are guys who would play along with you to the end just to ‘get down with you’ and eventually show you the EXIT SIGN when it is time for them to take a leave cool It doesn’t matter the method you use in playing the so-called ‘hard to get’. If you like, do it in a Chinese style or Zimbabwean style!!! Dat nor be dia concern!!! wink On a serious note, that a guy doesn’t have time to start running after you like a kindergaten child doesn’t mean he never desired you or liked you in sincerity. Different strokes for different folks, they say wink Below are the types of guys that find it difficult to tolerate ‘hard to get’ in romantic affairs: 1. Intelligent guys:  These set of guys find it difficult to tolerate all the u...

You struggle so hard to get this your dream girl. Along the line, after the sexual exploits day in day out, the hanging out and other things. Both of you have run out of ideas and the relationship is becoming boring. Breakup is all that comes to your mind. A relationship, as we all know, is the connection between two or more people, But in this case, the relationship is between you and your partner; when you are in a relationship, you are emotionally involved  or connected to your partner. And of course, every relationship needs refueling and it also needs re-boosting to spice up the atmosphere at a point in time. Here are 8 simple ways to boost your relationship: 1.Surprise your partner by doing a task you do not normally do: this task may be taking out the trash or cleaning the bathtub etc. 2.Compliment your partner’s parent: “I love how your Dad makes friends wherever he goes”; “I love how your Mom always asks after my family.” 3.Compliment one of your partner’s fr...

  So while we’re huge proponents of following your heart, here’s a crash course in outsmarting the romance novel in your head with our favorite five of Brochard’s tips. 1. Schedule your obsessing. While a true crush is the lifeblood of morning, noon and night, Brochard suggests you quiet the violins in your head and set aside a time to think about that special person. Like, say, during breakfast or while you walk around the block on your lunch break. Admittedly, we’ve never tried this. It sort of reminds us of attempting to avoid a blinking, beautiful bowl of chocolate candy when we’d sacrifice our first born for a single M&M. Yet, Brochard suggests you have a dialogue with yourself that goes something like this: “Thought, I appreciate your coming, but I’ve scheduled you for seven this evening, at which time you can totally distract me if you want.” You tell those thoughts who’s boss! 2. Replace your crush with a hobby. This one kills two birds with one stone. Dis...

When you start to date your best friend, you gain a lot: a protector, undeniable confidence, and a feverish determination to make your relationship work. But you also lose a lot and learn a lot. Read on to find out why taking on the challenge is a tough feat, but at the end of the day, totally worth it. 1. You’ll Know Exactly What the Other Person’s Thinking, All the Time You don’t need to bother trying to read your own best friend’s mind because you already know what he or she is about to say. So while a relationship with somebody new often involves a lot of overanalyzing and sending nerve-racking texts, you won’t have to play the guessing game this time around. 2. You’ll Wish There Were More Hours in the Day Time: you’re going to want more of it. At first, you won’t be able to get enough of each other. Now you can do the things you’ve always done as friends and things people do as more than friends. While you’ll want to spend the whole day together, there are other people...

It is a known fact that men are weirdly obsessed with their penises. They worry about the size, shape and even girth. We have news for you: if your woman keeps coming back for more, even though you find your penis unappealing, it might be because she loves it for the reasons below. MensHealth  presents the hidden benefits of the 'imperfect' penis below; Penis Predicament:  Too Small The Advantage:  There are two positives to having a small dick. One, it may make anal easier on her. And two, it can make her more enthusiastic about oral sex. “ I love anal, but I’ll only have anal with small guys because I’m not a freaking masochist ,” says Michele, 37. And  small wieners  are easier to fellate. “ Giving a normal size penis a blow job is hard on your neck, jaw, and lips ,” adds Michele. “ But I can go down on my small guy for as long as it takes .” Penis Predicament:  Too Thick The Advantage:  Your massive man-meat may intimidate h...

A recent study has found that level of  sexual satisfaction couples feel in relationships drops after just a year, TheIndependent reports. Researchers set out to find how long couples are sexually fulfilled over the course of a relationship. The team assessed data from a study involving 3,000 people, focusing on heterosexual people in committed relationships aged between 25 and 41. Participants were asked to report how happy they were with their sex lives. The study, published in the ' Archives of Sexual Behavior' journal, found that sexual satisfaction rises in the first year of a relationship – but then declines from this point onwards. However, the evidence did not suggest that marriage and cohabitation affect sexual satisfaction, which went against previous studies. Children also did not seem to have an effect, researchers found.  Instead, arguments and domestic disagreements were the root cause, with a decline in sexual satisfaction showing links wit...

Handsome Ghanaian actor John Dumelo has shared his views on her to treat a woman to ensure .her happiness After going to the 17 points he laid down, I wondered if Nigerian men can do them. Read and form your own opinions My view on how to treat women. 1.Don't compare your wife to other women. You don't know what their husbands are going through. 2. NEVER expose your wife's weakness to your family or friends or run to them whenever you have issues. Problems are best solved between you and your woman. 3. Don't think you are man so you can use intimidation, shout or violence to communicate your moods. Aggressive men don't make a happy home. 4. Speak gently and calmly to your wife. Never raise your voice at her, it demeans her and shows you think she is stupid. 5. Do your responsibilities as man...don't leave every to your woman. 6. Never blame your wife if she doesn't take care of the home everyday. She is swamped with house work and helping you raise...