LOVE AND DATING

A recent study has found that level of  sexual satisfaction couples feel in relationships drops after just a year, TheIndependent reports. Researchers set out to find how long couples are sexually fulfilled over the course of a relationship. The team assessed data from a study involving 3,000 people, focusing on heterosexual people in committed relationships aged between 25 and 41. Participants were asked to report how happy they were with their sex lives. The study, published in the ' Archives of Sexual Behavior' journal, found that sexual satisfaction rises in the first year of a relationship – but then declines from this point onwards. However, the evidence did not suggest that marriage and cohabitation affect sexual satisfaction, which went against previous studies. Children also did not seem to have an effect, researchers found.  Instead, arguments and domestic disagreements were the root cause, with a decline in sexual satisfaction showing links with

Handsome Ghanaian actor John Dumelo has shared his views on her to treat a woman to ensure .her happiness After going to the 17 points he laid down, I wondered if Nigerian men can do them. Read and form your own opinions My view on how to treat women. 1.Don't compare your wife to other women. You don't know what their husbands are going through. 2. NEVER expose your wife's weakness to your family or friends or run to them whenever you have issues. Problems are best solved between you and your woman. 3. Don't think you are man so you can use intimidation, shout or violence to communicate your moods. Aggressive men don't make a happy home. 4. Speak gently and calmly to your wife. Never raise your voice at her, it demeans her and shows you think she is stupid. 5. Do your responsibilities as man...don't leave every to your woman. 6. Never blame your wife if she doesn't take care of the home everyday. She is swamped with house work and helping you raise

 I doubt we need to define sex, but for the sake of those who might not know, Wikipedia defines Sex thus: Sexual intercourse, or coitus or copulation, is principally the insertion and thrusting of a male’s penis, usually whenerect, into a female’s vagina for the purposes of sexual pleasure, reproduction, or both. This is also known as vaginal intercourse or vaginal sex. Other forms of penetrative sexual intercourse include penetration of the anus by the penis (anal sex), penetration of the mouth by the penis or oral penetration of the female genitalia (oral sex), sexual penetration by the fingers (fingering), and penetration by use of a dildo (including a strap-on dildo). These activities involve physical intimacy between two or more individuals and are usually used among humans solely for physical or emotional pleasure and commonly contribute to human bonding. So apart from the physical pleasure, what other benefits are there? 1.  Lowers Your Blood Pressure So benefi

Though, anybody can be caught in the act of womanizing but the traits are mainly and specifically peculiar among the categories of the enlisted people. Note This is NOT a maximum generalization that all the categories of stated people are womanizers. It’s just to let you know that an average or sizeable number of them are guilty of the charge levied against them. We do not have all day. Lemme keep the ball rolling. 10 Categories of People That Can’t Do Without Womanizing 1. Yahoo Boys These ones deserve a standing ovation for womanizing cos they are naturally stereotyped “womanizers”. (though I take exception to those that will come in contact with me and will prove otherwise). Since they hold ladies attention like nobody else, all out of an conscious/unconscious desire to prove constantly that they are financially buoyant by extravagantly and wastefully spending their earnings from scam, all in a bid to take off the panties of the greedy, narcissistic and nefarious ladi

Some Ladies today wonder why after a guy has shown interest in them or after 2/3 dates he disappears or doesn’t return their phone calls, text, whatsapp or bbms, a celeb writer has answered this question…a must read!  1) Don’t take your friends along when he invites you on a date: Some Nigerian Ladies for some reason that is beyond me, take their friends on a date with a guy they just met. I can attest to this because it has happened to me before. No positive outcome can come out of this but some of the negatives are: (i) The guy will be turned off (ii) He may start liking or prefer one for your friends to you (iii) He will never get the opportunity to know you as much as he wants because of the 3rd wheel (iv) He may think you don’t have a mind of your own (v) He may turn you and your friends back (2) Don’t go to his house unannounced: One thing a man hates the most is for you to show up at his house unannounced or invited especially when he just met you. That’s a “NO NO” becau

Found this interesting article on UK Daily Mail written by Sexpert Tracey Cox, who revealed the 50 things females need to know in bed. Read below and share your thoughts... 1. You’ll have your first orgasm by yourself. Few of us are lucky enough to start our sexual lives with a lover who’s so patient and skilled he can teach us about our own body. 2. Enthusiasm and being willing to try (almost) everything once is what makes you sexy. Looks, breasts, legs up to your armpits – they’ll only take you so far. 3. A vibrator is the quickest, easiest, most effective way to stimulate the clitoris, which is how most women have an orgasm.   4. You won’t become ‘addicted’ to your vibrator.  Using it often won’t put you off having the ‘real thing’ - quite the opposite!  Women who regularly use sex toys have higher libidos, orgasm easily and report less sexual dysfunction. About the only ‘bad’ thing that can happen is feeling a bit numb from having it up too high. Panic no

In this informing write up, Jeremy Glass exposes the numerous uncountable lies women tell while dating to cover either their past or to secure their future relationships. Women are good with lies when it comes to securing their relationship and past. Here are 11 mostly harmless lies that every woman (and sometimes man) seems to say before, during, and after $ex. 1. “I don’t usually do this.” Who do you think you are? R. Kelly? You do this all the time and you like it, that’s why you’re doing it right now and will continue doing it in the future. Whether that “it” is involves something kinky with candle wax and food or that certain special position that can only be achieved by a step-stool, claiming ignorance with $ex won’t get you anywhere. 2. “I’m not that kind of person.” Come on. What are people so afraid of letting their freak flag fly? There’s nothing wrong with being the kind of person who sleeps with someone on the first date or the kind of person who doesn’t mind

Most women find it pretty difficult to verbally express what she likes in bed, especially if they are unconventional. Knowing how to take advantage of the sensitivity of the buttocks might be the hottest thing she has ever experience. Here are the things she wishes you would do to her bum. Light spanking:  Lightly spanking a woman (i.e., nothing that could cause a bruise) can feel amazing for both of you: I’ve Lots of women have said that getting spanked sends lots of tingly feelings to their vaginal and anal areas and lots of men say spanking a woman makes them feel like they are physically demonstrating their lust. Anal teasing : While inside her, try using your finger to tease her ass hole without actually going in. There is a reason why anal sex feel so good, nerve endings in the anal region can provide really intense levels of arousal for her. Squeeze and pinch : Like mentioned above, most women like a little bit of pain to go with the pleasure. Try grabbing her ass and

There a lot of reasons why your sex drive could take a hit. We all have lives and it is understandable that you might not be in the mood for sex every single time. But if you notice that your downtime is becoming more frequent, then these tips will help you boost your libido. Sleep: Your body lacks energy when you do not sleep well. Since you need energy for sex, you will find yourself feeling a lot more tired and a lot less 'in the mood' if your sleeping pattern is out of whack. There are many studies that show only sleeping 4 hours versus 8 hours for one night can reduce your total testosterone levels as much as 60% the next morning. Eat: It is important to have your proteins and healthy fats early in the day to keep your energy up. Go for proteins like beef, eggs, fish, or poultry along with fats like coconut oil, olive oil and avocado, to name a few. These approved foods will help keep you energized throughout the day and ready for sex. Relax : Stress can destroy a

Generally, feminism is associated with gossip; this has been illustrated over-time in local dramas as well as in award winning movies. Some women lack the ability to hold certain information and are known to spread tales whenever chanced. However there are men who are worse off than women when it comes to relating information and spreading tales of events. As shocking as this is, the men even tend to divulge information about their sexual escapades in boastful bids. Women particularly find it embarrassing when they hear comments being passed about them as a result of their engagement with these men. Not only do they find this embarrassing, it’s a humiliating experience for many. It is easy for men to kiss and tell when the lady in question is a fling. Some aspects of a relationship are meant to be kept private. Not everyone is interested in knowing what goes down and at what point it does. But some men these days find it absolutely normal to share information about the ladies i

The truth behind why nice guys sometimes finish last! It almost seems like most men fall into either the bad boy or the nice guy category. In my opinion, the ideal man is neither, but walks that fine line between the two. While some women say they want a nice guy, they usually end up dating bad boys. Here’s why! 1. Their Personalities Don’t Seem Genuine. Nice guys are too nice. No one can always be that nice unless they’re a saint. They are busy being nice instead of being real and women instinctually don’t trust that. Bad boys “keep it real.” Nice guys don’t want to upset the apple cart. 2. They Don’t Have Self-Respect! No one respects a doormat. Nice guys don’t set boundaries or make any real demands. A bad boy doesn’t let a woman walk all over him or control him. Women can’t respect a man they can control. No respect equals no attraction. 3. They’re SO Predictable—Which Is Just Boring! Most people lead boring, predictable lives, so they’re attracted to people who are

It is not just women who have something to hide, men too have their reasons for keeping a few things from their partners. 10 men reveal the top lies they tell their women. 1. I love you: “I was sexually attracted to my girlfriend long before I fell in love with her. But at that time, when she asked me, I told her I loved her because that was what she wanted to hear.” – Mark, 24. 2. I am single: “One lie I tell most women is that I am single. I am not in a serious relationship but I have a few women I see from time to time. I have not found ‘the one’ yet, but when I meet a potential girlfriend, I have to tell her I am single.” Benji, 24. 3. I am not into looks: “I have a picture in my head of my ideal woman, and my girlfriend does not exactly look like that. I tell her it does not matter to me, but I know I will be way more attracted to her if she looked a certain way” – OC, 26 4. I make X amount of money: “My wife does not know exactly what I make. I do not want her to fee